What is the most important thing in life for you? And if you ask this question different people, you will probably get different answers. I would immediately say freedom and development. One of my best friends replied that the most important things in life for him were family and health. You will have your answer. All you need to understand is that what is important to you controls your actions. Depending on what your priorities are, your life will be structured. And in this article I would like to talk about the formation of a system of life values, because... I think it's very important point in progress
Why is the value system so important for every person?
It is important to understand that the presence of a system value orientations already speaks of a mature personality. Personal values determine our internal readiness to perform certain activities and indicate the direction of our development. To say more in simple words, then the system of values for a person is a certain vector of his development. The value world of every person is vast. However, there are certain “basic” values that determine activities in the main ones.
Life values don't happen overnight. They are the result of our life experience. They play a huge role in this significant events in our lives, books, films, teachers, etc. Life values can change over time. There is nothing more permanent than temporary. At 15 you have one set of values, at 30 you have different values. Each person's values are individual, like fingerprints. The coincidence of the main life values strengthens relationships between people, which is very important in modern society.
Understanding your main life values is a very important thing. If you live a long and difficult life, and at the end you understand that such a life was not interesting, then it will be too late to change anything... If, on the contrary, you know well what you want from life, what is truly for you dear, every day of your well-structured life will be filled with meaning.
2 types of life values and 3 types of people
Actually exists a large number of values, but all of them can be divided into two large groups: material and spiritual.
- We can include material assets: an apartment, a car, a garage, jewelry, books, musical instruments, sports equipment, food, clothes, etc.;
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Depending on the created value system, each person can be classified into one of 3 groups:
- materialists;
- spiritual people;
- spiritual materialists.
I wonder which group you belong to?! Now stop reading for a minute and think. In which direction are your main development vectors directed? Toward the material? Or maybe towards the spiritual? Or both! Personally, I belong to the 3rd group. I am a spiritual materialist. But 5 years ago I was an inveterate materialist. Understanding the 7 areas of life helped me become more balanced and start living.
System of values modern man, unfortunately, looks like the Leaning Tower of Pisa, which is skewed to one side. You ask where? Towards material values. Everyone simply froze in materiality, like blocks of stone. You can touch, see, buy material values, and they all depend on the time in which a person lives. For example, 300 years ago there were no cars and that means there was no value in them either. Now you’re just thinking about how to make money on a cool Mercedes. Imagine that Jesus walked around the Holy Land and just had a blast without an iPhone 7S! There are now 60% materialists, and every day there are fewer and fewer of them.
There are much fewer spiritual people. 30% percent. A person pays attention to spiritual values after 40-45 years. Wisdom comes, you begin to value health, you show more love for the world around you, freedom and creativity appear in life. You think more about God and life in general. The time for inner philosophy is coming. I want to be silent more and even be alone. But many become so absorbed in spirituality that they forget about the material side. Most of the great Creators were poor. “Creativity and freedom are important to me, but money doesn’t bother me”—only a person whose life values are directed only towards the spiritual world can say this. And this is also a certain imbalance that needs to be eliminated. The faster the better.
Only spiritual materialists can be harmonious. In their value system, both are important. Personal development should be based on two types of values. Spiritual and material are two sides of the same coin. There is no need to deny one or the other. You need to connect, and then a powerful one will appear inner strength, which can work wonders. One only helps the other. They don't interfere. What would happen if I had to ride a unicycle. You can drive, but the speed will not be the same. And the speed of development of your personality is very important in life. There are approximately 10% of spiritual materialists. And there should be much more! We must create new life On our new planet Earth!
7 of my main spiritual values
Health– this is the basis of life. One of the most important values. We begin to value health when “problems” begin in the body. Until that time, we drink, smoke, and it’s unclear what we eat. Other values are probably even impossible without good health. This is difficult to explain to the younger generation. They have their own values. Give time to your health first.
Time is an invaluable resource. It cannot be bought, exchanged, or sold. They give you 70-100 years to realize your potential. You watch TV series day and night. Maybe you shouldn't have come to this planet? Watch the movie "Time". The main resource there is time, not money. We turned everything upside down, chasing green pieces of paper.
Love- This is generally the basis of the universe. The magnet that connects everything. Love for yourself, loved ones, nature, your favorite business, life in general. Without a feeling of love, a person cannot be harmonious. Few people now live in real Unconditional love. My opinion is that many people say the word “love”, but do not fully understand what it is. Be grateful and loved.
Knowledge– this is the basis of your development. Previously, knowledge was difficult to obtain. People traveled to the other side of the world to get it. Now there is the Internet. This is a great benefit that was created to unite all knowledge. Many people again do not understand this. They give it to you, you don't take it. You think you know everything. Not at all…
Development– this is the basis for your freedom. Everything develops, everything grows, everything blooms. You probably like the smell of blooming roses. A scent that cannot be enjoyed. Only at a certain point a person stops developing. It does not reach its flowering stage. Flowering of your life. It ruins your potential.
Liberty is the basis for creativity. You have free will to create. You are free to make any choice. Your life is your choice. And only you are responsible for your choice. Real life begins when you are fully aware of your freedom. But in life, people often become slaves, forgetting this value. Working for my uncle takes up my whole life.
Creation is the ability of your Spirit. You have forgotten that you are the Creator. You think that only God can create. You are part of him, and he is part of you. You are one. A drop of water is no different in composition from the entire ocean. Same composition, same properties. It's hard to understand. To be a spiritual person means to be creative.
These are my main values in life. For you, they may not be the main thing at all. I will recommend doing one exercise that will allow you to create your own value system in life. Take a blank sheet of paper, a pen and write down everything that you value most in life. The list must consist of at least 100 values. Then go through this list and cross out the least important ones so that 50 remain. Those 7-9 life values that will remain at the end and will be the most important for you.
Now think about whether you devote most of your time and energy to these values. If it turns out that you are constantly busy with others, then you are more likely to serve other people’s values or those values that are not first on the list. Exercise not life values will help change your life! The main values in life are called the main ones because they are our beacons and allow us to make sure that we are moving in the right direction.
Values in the most general sense are things and phenomena that are of significant importance for a person and society. Values have the ability to satisfy certain human needs, meet his interests, or correspond to the traditions of society and those social groups, in which a person is included.
Obviously, the value is not in the item itself. Objects become valuable only in the process of human evaluation of the world. For example, a banknote by its nature is just paper with printing ink applied to it. Its value is given by the appropriate attitude of man and society. Banknotes that are out of use lose their purchasing value, although they do not physically change.
However, value is not contained only in the human mind. Ideas about a banknote and the bill itself are not the same thing. Money in the mind and money in the pocket are different things, and their value is accordingly different: when choosing between them, we will choose real money (even if there is much less of it than “money in the mind”). In the subject, his consciousness, it is not the value itself that can be found, but only the act of evaluation. So, there are no values either in the object or in the subject. Therefore, they exist in the sphere of their interaction (just as electricity does not exist in either the positive or negative pole of a battery, it appears when they are connected). Value arises only at the meeting point between man and the world. Man is surrounded by silent things. To evaluate means to single out something significant from this mass, to feel the ability of some thing to respond, to meet human needs.
Values are so diverse that a complete and exhaustive description of them is impossible. An infinite number of values can be identified:
o primary - food, water, shelter, clothing, safety, protection;
o secondary - belonging, respect, love, recognition, self-expression;
o material - food, water, shelter, clothing, Natural resources, tools, expensive things;
o spiritual - truth, goodness, beauty, creativity, knowledge, justice, holiness;
o universal - life, freedom, goodness, beauty; about personal - all possible.
Values are not isolated or separated from each other, but are in constant motion and close interaction, forming a complex system of mutual intersections, coincidences and influences.
Life is the highest universal value. A person lives life consciously, sets certain goals for himself and strives for them. In other words, he ascribes a special meaning to life. The common meaning of life can be derived from the natural laws of life itself (naturalistic approach) or from absolute values that lie beyond life (authoritarian approach).
According to naturalistic approach, the meaning of life is the pursuit of pleasure, pleasure, and benefit. At first glance, this approach seems correct, but detailed analysis reveals a number of shortcomings in it. Sometimes, in pursuit of pleasure and profit, a person becomes not a free expresser of his desires, but a slave to them. Fixation on pleasures often leads to destruction of the psyche and body (for example, in the case of drug addiction). The consistent development of all naturalistic goals shows that their consequences can be such negative qualities as selfishness, gluttony, stinginess, and what is truly useful for a person is the ability to limit oneself on the path to pleasure and benefit.
IN authoritarian approach, the meaning of life lies in the pursuit of a great idea (for example, the common good). However, considering a person as a means to achieve higher goals devalues human life: for the sake of absolute ideas, which often turn out to be illusions, people have died and are dying. As a rule, the logical development of authoritarianism leads to blind adherence to an idea - religious or political fanaticism.
There is also subjective the point of view according to which there is no common meaning of life for everyone and each person freely chooses the meaning of his life in each of his actions. Austrian psychologist Viktor Frankl (1905-1997) indicated three main directions for searching for this meaning. A person must accept the values of creativity (creation and self-realization), experience (the ability to admire beauty, goodness, truth) and attitude (an optimistic perception of the world).
A person is free to choose his own path and is not immune from mistakes and failures. Science can only show him an approximate direction of search. The meaning of life cannot be obtained ready-made - it must be experienced and suffered in order to feel like a human being. Only freedom of choice gives meaning to life.
The concept of freedom is diverse - it can be negative (freedom from something) and positive (freedom for something), internal (freedom of will and choice) and external (freedom of action). Points of view on whether a person has freedom also differ significantly. Some thinkers believe that human actions and decisions are arbitrary (this position is called voluntarism), others believe that all actions are initially predetermined (the position of fatalism).
In the most general sense, freedom is the absence of restrictions and constraints. But in reality, a situation in which all restrictions are absent is impossible. Human actions are limited by nature and society. Natural limitations represented by physical laws and objective human capabilities: you cannot go back in time, you cannot run above a certain speed, you cannot live longer than a certain amount biological features body. Social restrictions are associated with the fact that the freedom of one person is limited by the freedom of another. English proverb He puts it this way: “The freedom of my fist ends where the freedom of your nose begins.”
To become truly free, you need to understand these external limitations: to know the objective laws of nature and social life and to understand the limits of your capabilities. Only by knowing the nature and essence of the limitations can you overcome them, thereby expanding the range of your actions. How better person understands his capabilities, the more freedom he has. For example, the laws of nature and scientific data say that a person cannot fly like a bird. Understanding the essence of objective restrictions (laws of gravity, aerodynamic features) made it possible to develop such technical means, which helped man rise into the air without violating natural laws. Limitations can be overcome only by understanding them: modern aircraft simultaneously take into account physical limitations and expand human capabilities. Freedom, according to the Dutch philosopher Benedict Spinoza (1632-1677), is a conscious (recognized) necessity. From this follows the philosophical definition of freedom. This - the possibility of the subject expressing his will on the basis of awareness of the laws of development of nature and society. It is the knowledge of the laws that liberates; ignorance only limits freedom.
As a perceived necessity, freedom is closely related to responsibility.
Responsibility - this is an awareness of duty, the demands placed on a person by society. In fact, responsibility is the flip side of freedom: the freer a person is, the more responsible he is. If a person’s behavior was not free, predetermined by someone else’s will or objective circumstances (the lives of his loved ones were threatened or the person was mentally insane), he, as a rule, does not bear criminal or moral responsibility. But for all his actions, committed freely, for each of his personal choices, a person is obliged to answer to society and himself.
In this regard, freedom has moral and legal limitations. External limiters(from the side of society) are expressed in norms, traditions, customs, laws, religious commandments, etc. Internal limiters(on the part of a person) are expressed in beliefs, personal principles, in the voice of conscience. If internal limiters are formed correctly, then external ones are no longer necessary. A person becomes an individual when he acts not on the basis of external coercion, not out of fear of punishment and not out of a desire to be rewarded. A real person acts morally based on his inner convictions, formed in the process of free self-determination.
Freedom is refracted in a special way in different spheres public life. For example, in the economic sphere freedom of the market and freedom of trade stand out. In the sphere of relations between the individual and the state, freedom of speech (the ability to express one’s beliefs), freedom of conscience (the ability to choose religious or atheistic views), freedom of assembly (the ability to gather to discuss various issues), freedom of association (to unite with other people), etc.
Civil values of an individual are formed on the basis of political freedoms. The concept of “citizen” indicates that an individual has a stable connection with a specific state. This connection is expressed primarily in the provision by the state to the citizen of certain rights and freedoms. Since there is no citizen without freedoms, it is the duty of every citizen to protect his freedoms from any infringement. Thus, active citizenship to protect one’s rights and freedoms, even if the rights of a citizen are violated by the state itself, is the primary value of the individual in its correlation with the state.
For every citizen, the continuation of freedoms are obligations to the state. In exchange for their freedoms, a citizen agrees to obey laws, defend the country, pay taxes, etc. Such duties are a fair payment for the rights and freedoms granted to the individual, therefore, her evasion of duties is considered not only illegal, but also morally reprehensible. From this point of view, the values of a citizen are patriotism, a sense of duty, responsibility for the fate of the country, etc.
There are a number of civic qualities that are associated not with the relationship between the individual and the state, but with the relationship between the citizens themselves. Since the freedom of one person in a state is limited by the freedom of another, respect for the interests of others and laws that ensure these interests fall into the category of values. From this point of view, the main civic values are recognized:
ABOUT tolerance-tolerance towards the beliefs of others; O humanism - recognition of the inner value of any person;
O legal consciousness- recognition of the supremacy of laws over private interests or beliefs.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
- 1. values in the most general sense, they refer to things and phenomena that are of significant importance for humans and society. Truth, goodness and beauty are recognized as the main spiritual values.
- 2. Life is considered the highest universal value. Meaning of life It is impossible to receive it ready-made - it must be experienced and suffered. Each person puts meaning into his own life.
- 3. Liberty there is a possibility for the subject to manifest his will on the basis of awareness of the laws of development of nature and society. The downside of freedom is responsibility- awareness of duty to other people and society as a whole.
- 4. K civic qualities individuals include an active civic position, patriotism and responsibility for the fate of the country, as well as tolerance, humanism and a developed sense of justice.
QUESTIONS
- 1. How do a person’s interests influence his value preferences? Are there differences between values in different cultural traditions?
- 2. Name the main approaches to determining the meaning of life. How does the degree of individual freedom influence the solution of life's meaningful issues?
- 3. How do you understand the phrase “Freedom is a perceived necessity”? Why is freedom called reverse side responsibility?
- 4. What do you understand by civic values? Why in modern life Have civic qualities of an individual acquired special significance?
- See for more details: Frankl V. Man in Search of Meaning. M., 1990.
For each of us, life values are the fundamental guideline in various types activities. They contribute to personal growth, creation of a comfortable life, formation creative thinking etc. Everything is achieved by a person thanks to the hierarchy of values he has built, which determines what priorities come first. This is the measure of human happiness.
Some people put their family first, others cannot imagine their well-being without others, and others devote themselves to interests and hobbies. Some representatives of humanity, refusing material wealth, see their happiness only in spiritual self-improvement. In general, life values are goals and priorities that, controlling a person’s life, determine his essence. The choice of fundamental guidelines is carried out by people depending on the level of development of their consciousness. However, either material should not be an extreme, as this will inevitably lead to excessive materialization or, conversely, illusoryness. Therefore, it is very important to achieve balance in the system life priorities.
There are universal human values that are equally important for all people. Each era sets its own system of priorities for the individual. In modern society, values include health, family, work and education. The implementation of priorities that are significant to a person is very important for his recognition and self-affirmation.
Beginning to form in the family, life values subsequently determine the image and their worldview. By analyzing them, you can determine scarcity or wealth inner world person, the diversity of his interests and individuality. In the formation of a person’s value systems, his close environment(friends, family), religious beliefs, as well as national and social traditions.
The basics of life can be divided into several groups:
- Family. Involves long-term relationships (with parents, children, marriage partner, loved ones and friends) that are viewed as valuable. Thanks to the improvement of a person in a couple, his personal growth occurs more effectively. And warm relationships with family allow you to feel the fullness of happiness.
- Career. It involves targeted actions aimed at achieving a certain goal, which opens up new opportunities and spheres of influence for a person.
- Favourite buisness. Helps reveal the inner world of a person. With a reasonably constructed hierarchy of life guidelines, your favorite pastime, hobby and many other interests will help strengthen your state of mental harmony and happiness.
- Money, comfort. An orderly life is considered as a value that requires certain financial costs.
- Education. Improving professional skills contributes to personal development and represents a certain value. Thanks to the acquisition of certain knowledge and skills, it is possible to perform high-quality and competent work and career growth.
- Health and beauty. Body values (fit figure, developed muscles, well-groomed skin) are considered an important component of a healthy lifestyle, requiring systematic exercise.
- Personal growth. Includes certain social and psychological skills that contribute to the formation of maturity in views, attention to others, the manifestation of wisdom, and control of one’s feelings and emotions.
Thus, life values are a person’s way of self-affirmation, regulating his behavior.
How many are there anyway? The list of all life values is huge, but everything that is too big can be divided into parts. In the synton approach, the basic life values of a healthy personality can be grouped into three main circles of values:
- Personal life and relationships,
- Business, business, work,
- Own development
If we divide these parts into smaller ones, we get the following list.
Love, excitement, fun and relaxation.
These are the values of joy - have fun, enjoy, live to the fullest. Travel to a distant, warm country, where there is an azure sea and white sand. Playing in a casino where the bets will take your breath away. The romance of meetings in a cafe, where there is cozy twilight and wonderful person against.
Family, mutual understanding, children.
This is a long-term relationship in a couple, parents and children, friends and loved ones. This is the value of relationships with other people. There is love here too - like joyful care, affectionate attention, warm respect. Here is a man who happily goes home after a day of work - his family is there, his wife and children. Here is a young guy who drops everything and goes to help his parents with their garden - because it’s already hard for his parents, but he loves them. Here is a woman ruffling the child’s hair and sitting down next to him to read a fairy tale.
Home, comfort, money.
This is the value of an orderly life. It lies at the junction of two spheres - after all, “home, comfort, money” are very necessary for the family and will not interfere with rest. On the other hand, money is already an outlet into the sphere of “Business, work, business.” A young couple goes to IKEA for the day to buy furniture for their new apartment. They carefully choose every chair and every shelf - they want to buy a lot, but they have less money than they want.
My business, my projects.
What do you do for a living? What do you do with your time when you go to work? What plans do you make when you fall asleep in the evening? This is all the value of the matter. Everything related to your work, your ideas and plans for creation and development is collected here. The guy has been interested in photography and videography since adolescence. Everywhere I tried to catch something unusual. Ten years have passed - he’s making expensive, high-quality videos and wants to branch out into cinema.
Career, power, status.
This is the value of social development - obtaining higher social status, new opportunities to influence and do. The man changes his car over and over again, buying more and more prestigious brands. A woman only goes to expensive boutiques. Each of them shows their status and each of them has worked hard to reach this height.
Education, promotion professional qualifications.
It is difficult to do your job well without education and experience. Therefore, the value of developing skills is in the sphere of “Business, work, business.” On the other hand, any education and professional development necessarily leads to personal development. Therefore, the value of developing mastery simultaneously belongs to the sphere of “I and my own development.” Here is a girl carefully watching what a Hollywood star looks like at the Oscars. The girl is a stylist, she watches the ceremony to catch the most fashionable trends. The girl is at work.
Personal growth, social and psychological skills.
This is the value of personal development. Personal growth can be briefly called the word “wisdom”. This is maturity, balanced conclusions, attention to other people. Social skills are behavior in society, for example, the ability to speak with a worker in one language, and with an intellectual in another. Psychological skills are overcoming your fears, mastering your emotions, purity and clarity of thinking. The girl was sarcastic and hot-tempered, it was difficult to be around her. She took care of herself and became softer in communication, more careful in expressing feelings. People immediately appeared nearby.
Beauty, health, harmonious development.
Appearance, a slender figure, well-developed muscles, the ability to dance and move beautifully - this is all the value of the body. This value lies at the intersection of two spheres - when a person takes care of his health, he necessarily develops, so the value rightly falls into the sphere of “I and my own development.” On the other hand, beauty and health greatly influence relationships and therefore belong to the sphere of “Personal life and relationships”. It is easier for a sporty, fit guy to interest a girl. It’s easier for a flexible and graceful girl to attract a guy’s attention.
Spiritual growth, knowledge of life, realization of purpose.
If you live not only for yourself, if it is important for you to leave a good mark in life, you have the highest motives, you can be called a person with spiritual aspirations. If you are a lover of literature about spiritual practices, which sells a standard set of astrology, yoga, esotericism and healing along with psychotherapy and Eastern teachings, then you are simply a buyer of literature in this genre.
Hi all! Life values are practically the foundation of a person’s personality, his core and support. Remember the saying: “Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are”? This is exactly how you can characterize anyone by finding out what is most important to them, what they strive for and crave.
Role and significance in human life
Values help us make decisions and choose the path we want to take. Or rather, they define it. Because, thanks to them, we navigate this world and understand what should be done and what should not be done. Otherwise, it will not be possible to satisfy your needs and realize your dreams. They often give us . They bring stability and confidence in a successful future. The main thing is to refrain from starting to impose them on others, otherwise they will turn into ideology. And this does not always promise a good outcome.
They are the ones who inspire, motivate and give us strength to achieve. Because a person who knows exactly what he wants and firmly believes in the correctness of the chosen path cannot be stopped. We can say without a shadow of a doubt that they help us find the meaning of our existence. They build character and help create close, deep connections with people who have similar priorities. Agree, it is very difficult to be close to someone who devalues. Or he doesn’t understand at all the importance of some processes that are significant for the interlocutor or partner.
They also allow you to form beliefs and a clear position regarding political and, in principle, social issues. Form self-esteem. They are guided in society, in the form of norms and rules of behavior.
Classification
In addition to material and spiritual, professor of psychology and pedagogy, Philip Lersch, identified three main types:
Life
These are our passions, hobbies, desires and feelings. To put it simply – an image and lifestyle. For some, quality rest is the most important thing, which is why they try to get pleasure and satisfaction from traveling as often as possible. For some, it is more important to invest in material things, rejoicing in the addition of a collection of stamps or figurines.
Self-importance
This category is more typical for individuals who strive to realize themselves, achieve heights and success, receiving recognition and respect from others. Why are all the resources and free time sent to work. An example is avid careerists who strive to come to power at any cost and so on.
Semantic
Based on the name, you can understand that they give meaning and significance to actions, desires, and dreams. This is the desire for creativity, the search for something ideal and perfect. Sincere impulses to serve for the benefit of society and help those who need help.
7 core values
Man is in a continuous process of development, with the exception of cases of degradation. He is completely different at different stages of his life. This is why there is a constant change in values.
For example, there are often cases when successful businessmen left their business, sold their houses, cars and went to live in deserted places. To connect with nature and feel the joy of life. Their system of priorities was completely changed, old stereotypes and aspirations “fell away”, and new ones were developed. They were aware of their problem and sought to correct it, to make up for the wasted years. And sometimes, on the contrary, the world received geniuses and simply creative individuals who were satiated with solitude and hungry for communication.
So, despite the fact that everyone has their own views on the world and needs, there are still areas that should never be ignored. So that, as in the previous examples, it is not taken to extremes. So, the core values:
Health
In the first place, since it is quite difficult to do without it, and sometimes even impossible. Agree, without pain and any physical limitations it is much easier to realize your goals and dreams. Good health is the best companion on the path to success. A surge of strength, vigor and energy – isn’t this what most of us dream about?
Therefore, it is important to exercise, consult a doctor on time and undergo periodic examinations to make sure that the body’s condition is normal, or to anticipate the occurrence of any disease. Listen to the sensations in your body, follow your desires and stop with any kind of addiction. After all, as they say, a healthy mind in a healthy body.
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Spirituality
Spirituality is quite multifaceted, and consists of faith, ethics, internal balance and harmony with the surrounding world, nature, understanding of the meaning of life and one’s purpose. It also affects the moral side of the individual. All this together helps to feel happiness, to understand what actions are worth doing and what not. Coping with difficulties, because what, if not faith, gives us the strength and motivation to act and move on, no matter what? It is very important to develop spirituality in yourself, and you will learn how to do this.
Proximity
It is important to receive it both in friendships and in family relationships. Communication in fact is our most important need, after, of course, physiological ones. To continue your family line, to feel support and support behind your back, to know that there are comrades-in-arms and people in general who care about you is truly valuable.
Many, not receiving intimacy, try to replace it with material things that give the illusion that, in principle, one can live without love. But in fact, the saturation and satisfaction from this are superficial and short-lived. Nothing can fully replace contact with another person, healthy and full of feelings.
Financial position
Financial independence provides a person with comfort, peace of mind, stability, and sometimes even health. Each of us simply must be able to plan expenses, have a passive form of income and avoid falling into a debt trap. Otherwise, anxiety, stress and poor health will be constant companions.
Thanks to money, we can purchase quality products and arrange our home so that it is comfortable. Travel the world, expanding your horizons and boundaries of consciousness, learning new things and so on. The problem arises when a person tries to replace all other needs directly with money, ignoring relationships, recreation, and hobbies. Therefore, take it into account and begin to improve your financial situation.
Career
The realization of your ambitions and abilities is sometimes vital, as they allow you to gain recognition from colleagues, loved ones, and society as a whole. Achieving career success and professional competence, a person experiences self-esteem, and this has a positive effect on his self-esteem.
This includes not only professional activity, but also charity. Helping others increases self-worth in the best possible way, and for some it also gives them an understanding of their purpose.
Rest
To be inspired and recharged with energy, it is important to be able to get quality rest. And believe me, not everyone is capable of this. Life's troubles and grandiose plans are sometimes so addictive that a person is afraid to relax even for a minute. Lounging in front of the TV or spending time playing computer games and in social networks in fact, they take time and do not allow you to sufficiently restore strength and resources.
